There are things that we can see with the naked eye: beautiful things, homes we would love, people inside them... But can the beautiful things and dream homes hide horror, fear, and despair?

Every third woman in Estonia has experienced partner violence at least once in her life. And violence loves silence. So, don’t be silent. Keep your eyes open because domestic violence is not just a matter of two. It affects us all.

Unique design collaboration

To raise public awareness against the domestic violence, we have teamed up with a famous Estonian designer Karl Korsar and created a limited edition bag expressing the idea of noticing violence in his unique style. The goal for this collaboration is to engage the many people in joining our movement. 

This kind of IKEA collaboration is happening for the first time in Estonia. For us, the key aspect was that a social issue of domestic violence truly matters to our partner and that this person is willing to speak on such an uncomfortable and challenging topic to inspire and activate others.

A bag that will get noticed. For the issue that is often unseen.

Together with designer Karl Korsar, we have created a limited collection of NOTICE VIOLENCE bags that come in two designs. Both the big and small bags contain symbolic messages, like  artwork and eye embroidery that encourages to open eyes and notice violence. Safety belts used as handles symbolize the lack of safety for violence victims and a change of mindset needed in the society to protect them.
“A home should always be a sanctuary.  It's crucial that we as a community tackle the issue of domestic violence and offer help to the most vulnerable in our society. It's our duty to keep eyes open and take action.”

Designer Karl Korsar

Every little counts

Going towards a positive change can be done even in smaller steps. Although the NOTICE VIOLENCE pin is small in size, it is a great way to show commitment to never close your eyes to violence. Wear it as a symbol of awareness and encourage bystanders to start noticing domestic violence, too.

Buy and donate

Would you like to join our movement against the domestic violence? It‘s simple. Buy any of the NOTICE VIOLENCE bags or pins and wear them proudly to spread the message. Everyone can become the ambassador. Will you? 

The bags and pins are sold at the IKEA store and online.
All profit goes to support crisis centres in Estonia.

MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA

pin

2,99

MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA | KARL KORSAR

bag, 38x43,5 cm

29,99

MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA

bag, 43x48,5 cm

44,99

Real stories

The real stories of women who survived domestic violence.
Violence cannot be justified in any way. If you are currently experiencing domestic violence, don’t delay and seek help, please connect to support helplines indicated below. 

Anna experience story (name changed)

„I wasn't allowed to have any male friends. I deleted all my male friends from Facebook. When I went somewhere, my every move was reported to him. Every day I had to report where I went and who I met. I always asked people I knew to say that they didn’t see me. He also kept track of who visited our home - for example, by tire tracks in the yard.“
 

Maria experience story (name changed)

“My mother-in-law also moved in with us. My cancellation by both of them started. All my thoughts, desires and actions were belittled - I was worthless. The child was shouted at and he also became violent towards the child. The child developed behavioural difficulties.
 

Tiina experience story (name changed)

When the child was born, the situation got worse. He could not bear the child's cry. He has thrown me and the child through the walk-in wardrobe door and beaten me while the baby was still in my arms. I never dared to put my daughter down because I was afraid he would hurt her. At least I could protect the child with my body.
 

Karina experience story (name changed)

“He dismissed me from the board member position in our joint company. Since I wasn't officially the founder, he left me nothing. He also refused to split the children's daily expenses in half. He secretly installed cameras in our home and watched our every move. He hacked into my social media accounts and stalked. He also threatened to take the kids away from me.
 

Interviews with Gestalt psychotherapist Kaire Talviste

Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence. Gestalt psychotherapist Kaire Talviste talks about the types of domestic violence, its impact, why it is difficult to leave a violent relationship, and how to help yourself or others who are going through this situation. Talviste has worked with both victims and perpetrators of domestic violence.

The many faces of domestic violence

Abuse isn't always physical. Learn about the different types of domestic violence, what are their characteristics, and what is usually the perpetrator's goal.
 

The visible and invisible traces

Domestic violence doesn't manifest itself immediately but makes its way slowly into the relationship. And often we don't even realise when someone's in a violent relationship. So what is the impact of domestic violence?
 

Patterns and paradoxes

Domestic violence usually follows a pattern that consists of three phases. And because of this pattern, it is difficult for the victim to leave the abusive relationship. There are also other reasons, such as manipulation and threats.
 

What to do?

Do you seek help yourself or want to support someone experiencing domestic violence? Learn what to notice or what you should know or do before leaving an abusive relationship.
 

What to do if I suspect violence

  • Be kind and attentive while talking to a person who is a victim of domestic violence.
  • Do not judge the victim’s actions or failure to act. Be patient and open.
  • Point out that violence is not the victim’s fault.
  • Do not urge the victims to act here and now, do not press them or be too intrusive. Allow them to open up at their own pace.  
  • Encourage the victim to seek specialized help: police, medical care, specialized help centres.
  • In case of physical violence, at first let the perpetrator think that you have noticed it (doorbell ring, shout) and report this to the emergency number 112.

There’s always someone to trust

Dealing with difficult situations is much easier when you are not alone. If you seek help or need any support, please connect to support helplines of Social Insurance Board: 
  • helpline for victims of violence: 116 006 (24/7). The victim support crisis helpline offers support and being heard if you have experienced violence, loss, found yourself in a traumatic situation or it has happened to a loved one or acquaintance. Crisis helpline counselors listen, share information about help options and, if necessary, connect you with the right specialists.
  • helpline for emotional and psychological support: 116 123 (every day 10:00 – 24:00).
  • helpline for children support: 116 111 (24/7).
  • counseling line of the Social Insurance Board for giving up violence: 660 6077 (working days 10:00 – 16:00). 
More information on awareness of domestic violence: www.palunabi.ee and www.sotsiaalkindlustusamet.ee.
 

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MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA

pin

2,99

MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA | KARL KORSAR

bag, 38x43,5 cm

29,99

MÄRKA VÄGIVALDA

bag, 43x48,5 cm

44,99




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